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04/05/08
- NNHS Newsletter -
“Better by far you should forget and smile |
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Dear
Friends and Schoolmates,
Today we're continuing with our
April themes.
I remember this song as a soft, lovely, romantic ballad sung by (who else?!?) the legendary Frank Sinatra:
BONUS #1 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BcXpZ2GBgYY - Frank Sinatra, 1961
These other five jazz versions - widely recognized for their greatness and genius - I have included solely out of love for those of y'all who appreciate this sort of thing. I personally do not, and generally must resist the urge to throw something when I hear such nervous cacophony:
BONUS #2 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mO7d1J5p1bM - Tony Bennett with Buddy Rich
BONUS #3 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGtWLdXuGLg - Sarah Vaughan in Prague - 1978
BONUS #4 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-P4_NMszv4 - Erroll Garner (Concert by the sea) (no video)
BONUS #5 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hsP0d6-ZrA - Max Roach/Clifford Brown with Sonny Rollins - January, 1956
BONUS #6 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypdTwmlKVIQ - Bud Powell

UPCOMING BIRTHDAYS:
Happy Birthday tomorrow to Gerald Leonard ('66) of VA AND Aaron (Hank) Smith ('69) of ?!
Happy Birthday
this week to:
10 -

Skip Wood ('65) of NC;
11 -
Brownie Shaffer Haracivet ('62)
of VA AND
Susan Avent Hill ('66) of VA
AND
Kathy Cooper ('70) of VA:
12 -
Richard Rawls ('71) of VA!
Many Happy
Returns, One and All!
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From
Wayne
Stokes ('65) of VA - 04/04/08 - "Our Presidential
Choices.....":
Okay, I really
wasn't planning to post any more politically oriented material for a while,
but this is sooo funny! ![]()
Thanks, Wayne
Honey - and Rip Precious!
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From Mary Massey Lyle ('61) of NJ
- 04/04/08 - "Crabby Old Man":
CRABBY OLD MAN
When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near Tampa , Florida , it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, They found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Missouri . The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.
And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this "anonymous" poem winging across the Internet.
Crabby Old Man
What do you see, nurses? What do you see?
What are you thinking.....when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man, ...not very wise,
Uncertain of habit ........with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food.......and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice....."I do wish you'd try!"
Who seems not to notice the things that you do.
And forever is losing .......... A sock or shoe?
Who, resisting or not...........lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding ... The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking? Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse... ..you're not looking at me.
I'll tell you who I am ......... As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, .....as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten.......with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters ........who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen ....... with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now. ....... a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty ...... my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows ...... that I promised to keep.
At Twenty-Five, now ......... I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide .... And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty ........ My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other ....... With ties that should last.
At Forty, my young sons ...... have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me.......to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, ......... Babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children ..... My loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me ............ ... My wife is now dead.
I look at the future ..............I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing ...... young of their own.
And I think of the years ....... And the love that I've known.
I'm now an old man........and nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age ......look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles..........grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone........where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass ...... A young guy still dwells,
And now and again .......my battered heart swells
I remember the joys........... I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living.............life over again.
I think of the years, all too few......gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact........that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people ..........open and see,
Not a crabby old man. Look closer....see........ME!!
Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within.....we will all, one day, be there, too!
PLEASE SHARE THIS POEM
The best and most beautiful things of this world can't be seen or touched.They must be felt by the heart.
God Bless.
This is an
extremely moving selection, Mary! Thanks so much - for everything!
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From the President of the Class of 1965,
Joe Wingo of NC - 04/04/08:
Hey Carol,
I have an Aunt and Uncle in Lakeland so I need to ask
Raoul
(Weinstein - '57 - of FL) if it’s OK for them to come to his shin-dig in my
stead? They are 80 and 90 respectively!
Just kidding of course but when I saw Lakeland the world’s smallness revealed itself once again.
It does sound like a fun evening and I wish them luck with fundraising.
Take care of yourself.
Best wishes to all,
Joe
Doncha just love
the small world stories, Joe?!? Thanks, Sweetie!
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From Joyce Lawrence Cahoon ('65) of
VA - 04/04/08 - "He Is God!":
It is indeed, Joyce! I can't resist making a plug for the painting - which you may recognize from these pages before:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/04-08-07-NNHS-Happy-Easter-rel.html
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/03-23-08-NNHS-Happy-Easter.html
It's called "He Lives" by LDS artist Simon Dewey.
Thanks so much!
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From
Glenn Dye
('60) of TX - 04/04/08 - "Southern
women":
SOUTHERN WOMEN
Southern women appreciate their natural assets:
Clean skin.
A winning smile.
That unforgettable Southern
drawl.
Southern women know their
manners:
"Yes, ma'am."
"Yes, sir."
"Why, no, Billy!"
Southern women have a distinct way with fond
expressions :
"Y'all come back!"
"Well, bless your heart."
"Drop by when you can."
"How's your Momma?"
Southern women know their summer weather report:
Humidity
Humidity
Humidity
Southern women know their
vacation spots:
The beach
The rivuh
The crick
Southern women know the
joys of June, July, and August:
Colorful hi-heel sandals
Strapless sun dresses
Iced sweet tea with mint
Southern women know
everybody's first name:
Honey
Darlin'
Shugah
Southern women know the
movies that speak to their hearts:
Fried Green Tomatoes
Driving Miss Daisy
Steel Magnolias
Gone With The Wind
Southern women know their
religions:
Baptist
Methodist
Football
Southern women know their
country breakfasts:
Red-eye gravy
Grits
Eggs
Country ham
Mouth-watering homemade
biscuits with momma's homemade jelly
Southern women know their
cities dripping with Southern charm:
Chawl'stn
S'vanah
Foat Wuth
N'awlins
Addlanna
Southern women know their
elegant gentlemen:
Men in uniform.
Men in tuxedos
Rhett Butler
Southern girls know their
prime real estate:
The Mall
The Country Club
The Beauty Salon
Southern girls know the 3
deadly sins:
Having bad hair and nails
Having bad manners
Cooking bad food
More Suthen-ism's:
Only a Southerner
knows the difference between a
hissie fit and a
conniption fit,
and that you don't "HAVE" them, you "PITCH" them.
_____
Only a Southerner knows how
many fish, collard greens, turnip greens, peas, beans, etc., make up"a
mess."
_____
Only a Southerner
can show or point out to you the general direction of
"yonder."
_____
Only a Southerner
knows exactly how long"directly"
is, as in: "Going to town, be back directly."
_____
Even Southern babies know
that "Gimme some sugar"
is not a request for the white, granular sweet substance that sits in a pretty
little bowl in the middle of the table.
_____
All Southerners know exact
ly when "by and by"is.
They might not use the term, but they know the concept well.
_____
Only a Southerner knows
instinctively that the best gesture of solace for a neighbor who's got trouble
is a plate of hot fried chicken and a big bowl of cold potato salad. If the
neighbor's trouble is a real crisis, they also know to add a large banana puddin!
_____
Only Southerners grow up
knowing the difference between "right
near" and
"a right far piece." They also know that
"just down the road"
can be 1 mile or 20.
_____
Only a Southerner,
both knows and understands, the difference between a redneck, a good ol' boy,
and po' white trash.
_____
No true Southerner would
ever assume that the car with the flashing turn signal is actually going to make
a turn.
_____
A Southerner knows that
"fixin" can be used as
a noun, a verb, or an adverb.
_____
Only Southerners
make friends while standing in lines, .. and when we 're "in line," . we talk to
everybody!
_____
Put 100 Southerners in a
room and half of them will discover they're related, even if only by marriage.
_____
In the South,
y'all is singular,
all y'all
is plural.
_____
Southerners know grits come
from corn and how to eat them.
_____
Every Southerner knows
tomatoes with eggs, bacon, grits, and coffee are perfectly wonderful; that red
eye gravy is also a breakfast food; and that fried green tomatoes are not a
breakfast food.
_____
When you hear some one say,
"Well, I caught myself lookin'," you know you are in the presence of a genuine
Southerner!
_____
Only true Southerners say
"sweet tea"
and "sweet milk."
Sweet tea indicates
the need for sugar and lots of it -- we do not like our tea unsweetened. "Sweet
milk" means you don't want buttermilk.
_____
And a true
Southerner knows you don't scream obscenities at little old ladies who drive 30
MPH on the freeway. You just say, "Bless her heart"
... and go your own way.
_____
To those of you who are
still a little embarrassed by your Southerness: Take two tent revivals and a
dose of sausage gravy and call me in the morning. Bless your heart!
_____
And to those of you who are
still having a hard time understanding all this Southern stuff, ... bless your
hearts, I hear they are fixin' to have classes on Southernness as a second
language!
_____
And for those t hat are not
from the South but have lived here for a long time, all y'all need a sign to
hang on y'alls front porch that reads "I ain't from the South, but I got here as
fast as I could."
Southern girls know
men may come and go, but friends are fahevah!
Now...... Shugah, send this to someone who was
raised in the South or wish they had been!
If you're a Northern
transplant, Bless your little heart, fake it.
We know you got here as fast as you could.
Why, thank you, Honey Chile, this is classic information!

From Joyce Lawrence Cahoon ('65) of
VA - 04/04/08 - "Beautiful and Appreciated":
Jean Poole Burton ('64 of RI) how
much I truly enjoyed her childhood memory. I'm so glad to know someone enjoyed
those "feed-sack" dresses as much as I did. They were beautiful little
dresses, complete with homemade lace and all the ruffles a little girl could
ask for. The feed-sack was a bonus sort of like carnival glass was free in
oatmeal boxes and Kroger sold biscuits (cookies) in what is now called
Depression Glass. I have a pink covered "cookie jar" that I picked up at a
flea market. I'm embarrassed to say what I paid for it!!! I collect the pink
depression glassware and use it often.
GIGGLES!!!
Several members of our Typhoon Nation
collect "the Pink", Joyce, including
Al Simms
('60) of VA and
Jimmy Parker ('62) of VA.
I even have a couple of pieces
myself:
WOWZERONI!!! You really got me that time! Thank you so
much for those beautiful words, Joyce!
You
probably cannot even imagine what they mean to me!

From Jean Poole Burton ('64) of
RI -
04/04/08 - " Love
Simon and Garfunkel...":
I have enjoyed the funnies about driving at the end of the newsletters...I actually know someone who drove off with the gasoline nozzle in the tank...I had a '78 Buick station wagon and my joke was that I had backed into everything in RI!!!
I now drive a Camry...and I avoid backing up whenever I possibly can...if God wanted us to drive backwards he would have put eyes in the backs of our heads!!! That's my story and I am sticking to it!
Thanks,
Lady!
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From Elaine Wilkinson Bracken ('61) of VA - 04/04/08:
Thomas M. Wilkinson, class of
1958, died in a car accident on August 6, 1961. Would you please
update that information for me? Thank you!!
Sending you prayers and hugs, Elaine
Thank
you so very much, Elaine!
I corrected Tommy's
entry, but would very much like to add his date and place of birth as well:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/memoriam-all.html
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/memoriam58.html
Your offer of the yearbooks is extremely generous!
I
would be deeply honored to have Tommy's 1958 Anchor. A
kind and beautiful soul who asked to remain anonymous has already given me the
1955, 1956, and 1957 editions, but yearbooks are always wanted by so many people
who have lost these priceless treasures through the years.
"Anyone? Anyone?"

PRAYER ROLL (arranged alphabetically, but not necessarily complete):
1.
Jerry Allen ('65) of VA -
began radiation for cancer
2.
Connie Bloxom Thompson ('66) of MD - multiple heath and financial
issues; needing cataract surgery to prevent inevitable blindness ASAP;
update
of 03/11/08:
"SO FAR, 1/2 FUNDS FOR 1 EYE PROCEDURE";
update of 03/28/08: re-hospitalized; $1475.00 received so far
3.
My Friend Judy of IL - shoulder replacement surgery - 04/22/084. Clyde Bryant ('58) of PA - heart replacement surgery - 12/13/07
5.
Me
('65) of NC - recent (late
January) development
of congestive heart failure plus the usual
financial woes;
update
of 03/28/08: not as well as I'd hoped to be by now; more downs than ups.....
6.
Evelyn Casey Snead ('57) of VA - gallbladder surgery on 03/12/08
7. Emily (daughter of My Niece Shari) of VA - advancing scoliosis; surgery 03/11/08; update of 03/12/08: surgery went well, running slight fever; update of 03/18/08: had some ups and lows, but is home again
8.
Karen Hampton (Hampton HS - '64) of VA
- knee surgery on 03/13/08; update
of 03/22/08: recovering nicely
9. Frances Heath Scott ('62) of VA - inflammation of nerves; due to have been released from hospital on 02/27/08
10. Bobby Hedrick ('58) of VA - recently diagnosed with pancreatic cancer; update of 03/22/08: "doing very well, no pain, just some soreness"
11.
Heidi
Hice MacKay of MI and her Family - stressing over their beloved patriarch since
late January 2008;
update
of 03/17/08:
still needing our prayers
12.

Herb Hice
of MI
and the MacKay Family - triple bypass surgery plus carotid artery cleanup - @ 01/25/08;
update
of 03/10/08: still being sedated while not on the ventilator, but made it for
nine hours on 03/09/08; "holding his own";
update
of 03/17/08: not much progress, but no regression, either;
update of 03/24/08: "some good days
and some bad days; the doctors caring for Herbie are just taking a wait and see
approach and playing it by ear day by day";
update of 03/31/08:
stays awake longer, off the ventilator longer, now enjoying his beloved
opera, card shower requested
13. Deloris Jackson Morgan ('66) of VA? - recovering from surgery on her ankle
14.
Linda Lamb Stokes (Hampton HS - '66)
of VA -
surgery of the cervical spine on 3/5/08 to place a new stainless steel plate and
screws to eliminate extremely severe pain;
update
of 03/13/08: "better, but still a bit away from 'good'"
15. Patsy Lewis Hancock ('57) of VA - suffered second massive heart attack - 01/31/08; update of 03/13/08: "is doing very well. She is taking some kind of cardio rehab therapy and she is feeling well enough that she has gone back to work. She's only working 1/2 days..."
16.
John London
(Warwick HS - '57) of VA - lumbar surgery to
fix a spinal stenosis [ laminectomy]; will also involve fusion of vertebrae -
02/05/08
17. Pam Pennington Cherry ('58) of VA - congestive heart failure; cardiac ablation procedure - 02/06/08; second surgery on 02/20/08 for aneurysm; update of 03/17/08 - still experiencing difficulty with heart racing, breathing and pressure in her chest; pray that cardiac ablation procedure will not have to be repeated, and that Pam can learn to REST!
18.
Jimmy Shires ('57) of VA -
update
of 03/30/08: emergency appendectomy caused by ruptured appendix; will be in the
hospital 3 - 4 days
19
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Jimmy Smith ('62) of VA -
suffered
heart attack 02/13/08
2
0. All of Us

DATES
TO
REMEMBER:
1.
Saturday, April 26, 2008 - 22nd Annual "Almost World Famous" Sertoma Sock Hop,
Lakeland, FL

2. Friday and Saturday, May 16 - 17, 2008 - NNHS CLASS OF 1958:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/reunion-class-of-1958.html
- 03/18/083. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, September 26 - 28, 2008 -
NNHS CLASS OF 1968:http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/reunion-class-of-1968.html - 03/31/08
4. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, October 17 - 19, 2008 - NNHS CLASS OF 1963:
http://www.nnhs65.00freehost.com/reunion-class-of-1963.html - 03/26/08

From
Wayne
Stokes ('65) of VA - 03/26/08 - "2007 Woman Drivers Awards" (#9
in a Series of 10):
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The 2007 Women
Drivers Awards |
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Thank you to all contestants for giving us all a reason to laugh and smile.
Thank you, Wayne Honey!
This is an excellent example of
why I decided never to take driver's ed or apply for a driver's license!

From Charlie Snead ('64) of NC - 03/26/08 - "Good thoughts for 2008"
(#9 in a Series of 12):
Carol,
I just felt you'd like this today.
Thank you for being such a friend to so many of us.
Charlie
Give this heart to everyone you don't want to lose in '08 including me.
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Friends are like balloons; once you let them go, you might not get them back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own lives and problems that we may not even notice that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we forget what's right and wrong. Sometimes we just don't realize what real friendship means until it is too late. I don't want to let that happen so I'm gonna tie you to my heart so I never lose you. Send it to some balloons that you think have flown away forever. You may be surprised to see it return. Send this heart to everybody you like.
Thank you so much, Charlie! You were right - I did need this!

Next time there will
be more exciting old Beacon articles from our
Wizard of Wonderment,
Dave Spriggs ('64) of VA!
Y'all enjoy your weekend - and take care of each other! TYPHOONS FOREVER! We'll Always Have Buckroe!
Love to all, Carol
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I'll Remember April
~ from the 1942
Western Musical Comedy, "Ride 'em Cowboy"
Music by
Gene de Paul;
Lyrics by Patricia Johnston and
Don Raye
This lovely day will lengthen into evening,
We'll sigh good-bye to all we've ever had,
Alone where we have walked together,
I'll remember April and be glad....
I'll be content, you loved me once in April,
Your lips were warm, and love an' spring were new,
But I'm not afraid of autumn, and her sorrow,
For I'll remember, ( I'll remember )
April and you! ( I'll remember )
The fire will dwindle into glowing ashes,
For flames and love live such a little while . . .
I won't forget, but I won't be lonely, ( Oh, no . . . )
I'll remember April, and I'll smile . . .
The fire will dwindle into glowing ashes,
For flames and love live such a little while ( a little while )
I won't forget, but I won't be lonely ( I won't be lonely )
I'll remember April, and I'll smile . . .
I won't forget but I won't be lonely, no . . .
I'll remember April, and I'll smile!
This lovely day will fade away....

"I'll Remember April" midi courtesy of http://www.piano-master.com/Real%20Book/Realbook.htm - 04/04/08
"I'll Remember April" lyrics courtesy of http://kokomo.ca/pop_standards/ill_remember_april_lyrics.htm - 04/04/08
First Image of Azaleas (Kinney Azalea Gardens, 2391
Kingstown Road, Kingston, Rhode Island) courtesy
of
http://www.gdeb.com/organizations/EBAC/garden_club/kinney.htm -
04/04/08
Second Image of Azaleas (taken 04/27/03) courtesy of http://www.nap.edu/staff/mjensen/aaup2006/ - 04/04/08
Flowers Divider Line clip art courtesy of - well, I can't seem to find who, because apparently it's been in my files since 11/17/05, but I never used it until 02/05/07
Animated Tiny
Birthday Cake clip art courtesy of
Sarah Puckett Kressaty ('65) of
VA - 08/31/05
Thanks, Sarah Sugah!
Marine Corps Seal clip art
courtesy of
Herbert Hice of MI
- one of my
Famous Marines
who served in the South
Pacific during WWII.
Thanks again, Herbie!!
Army Seal clip art courtesy of Al Farber ('64) of GA - 05/24/06
Thanks, Al!
Crying Baby clip art courtesy of http://www.barbspics.com/baby/babypage06index.html - 09/28/05
Animated Laughing Kitty courtesy of Tom Flax ('64) of VA - 06/03/06
Thanks, Tommy!
Hampton High School's Crab clip art courtesy of http://www.geocities.com/agent99bm/ - 10/02/05
Air Force Seal clip art courtesy of http://www1.va.gov/opa/feature/celebrate/milsongs.htm - 07/07/06
Navy Seal clip art courtesy of http://www.onemileup.com/miniSeals.asp - 05/29/06